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Tips

We first started coming here because it is such a wonderful vacation destination. There is so much to do. Sometimes we feel like there is too much to do!

Being here just feels good, too. It's stimulating in so many ways. A person we met recently said, "You can feel your mind expanding just walking down the street."

When considering possible places to live, there was little question about where we wanted to go.

We would have loved knowing other women in the area to give us insider insights and tips. Now, we'd like to help you in that way - whether you just want to visit or if you want to move here. There's a community waiting to welcome you!

Interested in learning more about moving here or finding a vacation home? Check out The Treehouse Team. Or just email us about real estate opportunities.

See our tips below and feel free to let us know if you'd like more information on anything.

  • The first tip is to check out some of the links at the right before you come. Lots of good stuff!
  • Check the weather before you pack. It can vary greatly in temperature and every other way. An umbrella is a good idea. If you plan to do any hiking at higher altitudes, be sure to have some warmer clothing you can layer on or peel off.
  • For hiking or rambling through town or anywhere else, bring comfortable shoes.
  • If you like the outdoors, you'll want to plan on some hiking. The nearest trail to our guest suite is about 1 mile from here. It's the Mountains to Sea Trail. You may not want to do the whole thing! See the links at right for more hiking information.
  • Maybe just hiking in the mountains isn't good enough for you. If you are a rockclimber, bring your climbing shoes, too.
  • If you are a bike rider, you won't be alone here! There are marked bike trails throughout the city, but very few bike lanes, so you have to really watch out for cars. But for anyone who really loves to ride, bring your bike - road bike or mountain bike. There is some serious bike riding happening here. Mountain Bike Magazine rated us one of the 10 best places to ride in the fall. There are numerous bike shops and the one voted #1 this year is owned by a woman!
  • There are several grocery stores near Lovers' Loop Retreat where you can shop for your stay here. If you want to stop on the way here, be sure to ask us for directions. We'll make sure you have ice cubes frozen in your fridge so you can have a cold drink when you arrive. We'll also remember to supply coffee filters, if it's a hot drink you need.
  • Unless there is a special event, the city garages downtown (Rankin Street and Civic Center) are the best places to park Monday through Saturday from 8 a.m to 6 p.m. when the parking meters are operating. At other times, parking on the streets is free. Be sure to ask us for more parking info.
  • If you're planning to move here, we can talk with you about our experience and, since one of us is a licensed broker, we can give you professional help as well. Please don't be afraid to ask.
  • We also can recommend a handyperson, accountant, financial planners, doctors, dentists, etc. We've especially sought women professionals to help us with the various needs one has when moving to a new place. We hope to include a directory of local businesswomen here in the future.
  • If you forget to bring a journal and wish you had something cool to write your thoughts and experiences in, we may have something suitable. Just ask.
  • Come prepared to be inspired and motivated by both the natural surroundings and the creative local community. Art is everywhere! You're going to love it here!

Any questions? Contact us.

 

 

Links

This is an assortment of links you may find helpful as a visitor or newcomer. We also hope to add new links, so visit us again to see what's new.

Women's networks General info
Asheville business Mind, body, spirit
Arts, entertainment Outdoor activities
LGBT community Shopping
Real estate/apartments Attractions

    Women's networks

  • sheville.org This is "THE online cyber-zine for women who live in or visit the Asheville area."
  • wnc-woman.com A monthly western North Carolina (WNC) paper that celebrates "the strength, wisdom and grace of women."
  • womansong.org Asheville's women's community chorus, which is so much more than just a place to go sing.
  • solopreneurwoman.com If you are thinking of starting a business or moving yours here, you may want to check out what these women offer.
  • A helpful Web site for women everywhere..
  • You need to check this one, no matter what part of the world you live in. Important stuff for all women.
  • National Organization of Women (NOW) This organization and site are well worth your time to explore - filled with resources and ways to become involved in meaningful activities. Asheville has it's own chapter!
  • Going to New Zealand? Visit Rosemary and Ngaire at Waihoihoi Lodge a unique women's lodge 2 hours north of Auckland in subtropical Northland New Zealand. Affordable luxury set on 5 acres of organic gardens - you won't be disappointed!
  • And that isn't all Rosemary and Ngaire do! Women Travel New Zealand is a women's NZ travel network offering over 60 women's places to stay and tours as well as lots of local information to make your New Zealand trip memorable. Everything from camping on women's land to 5 star accommodation and everything in between.

    Asheville business resources

  • ashevillechamber.org A great source of info about places of interest and many other things concerning the area.
  • mountainx.com Mountain Xpress is our weekly, independent newspaper. Its coverage includes the arts and an overwhelming list of events.
  • citizen-times.com The local daily newspaper.

    The arts, entertainment

  • southernhighlandguild.org Check out the guild for quality crafts. The group runs the Folk Arts Center on the Blue Ridge Parkway, about 4 miles from Lovers' Loop Retreat.
  • ashevilledowntowngalleries.org This site has links to some of the local galleries. The organization offers an "art walk" each season, usually the first Friday of April, June, August and October from 5 till 8 pm. You can walk from one gallery to the next, all over downtown, looking at beautiful art of all kinds. The atmosphere is festive, often with the artists present and refreshments.
  • ashevillesymphony.org Asheville Symphony
  • dwtheatre.com Diana Wortham Theatre - music, dance, comedy, and other entertainment.
  • ffbtrail.com The Fabric Fiber Bead Trail of the Asheville area. Check out these interesting shops.
  • ashevillelyric.org The Asheville Lyric Opera presents professional, entertaining, light opera.
  • fineartstheatre.com The Fine Arts Theatre, located in downtown Asheville, shows many art house, LGBT and independent films.
  • riverdistrictartists.com The River District of Asheville is home to a variety of galleries, studios and art centers. There is a "studio stroll" on the second full weekend of June and November when you can visit most of the studios and talk with the artists.
  • weavervilleartsafari.com Weaverville is just north of Asheville. It's home to many galleries and studios. They organize regular self-guided tour days that they call art safaris. You need to check out Weaverville any time of year and don't miss the Well-Bread Bakery! Yum!
  • OutSpoken A cafe/bookstore in West Asheville, lesbian-owned and -operated. They don't have a Web site, but you can check them out on MySpace. Occasional live music, spoken-word and author events.
  • Scandals A mostly lesbian nightclub in downtown Asheville. Dance club with drag shows.
  • Club Hairspray LGBT nightclub in downtown Asheville. Live entertainment. Dance club with drag shows.
  • O'Henry's - The oldest gay bar in NC, lesbian-friendly - located in downtown Asheville.
  • Tressa's Jazz club in downtown Asheville. LGBT-friendly
  • The Orange Peel A small club with big performers including Melissa Ferrick and the Indigo Girls.

    LGBT community resources

  • outinasheville.com The monthly newspaper that is a resource for the LGBT community, which thrives here.
  • amazingdreamspublishing.com A Web site that provides services for women worldwide and the people who love them - owned by a local woman.
  • Two Women and a Poodle, also known as Gay Into Straight America. Check out this Web site! Dottie and Roby spent a night with us and we really enjoyed getting to know them a bit and hearing about their year-long adventure, setting out to travel around America "engaging hearts and minds, creating authentic connections and dissolving differences that separate us." They are doing a wonderful job bring gay and anti-gay people together. They have excellent resources on their Web site.
  • ALPs is a local lesbian social group. The women meet the first Wednesday evening of the month for dinner at a local restaurant. It is a larage group! Then there are various other activities during the month. Let me know if you want more info.
  • OLE! This stands for Older Lesbian Energy! A social group for lesbians over 50 (younger partners are allowed!). They have a great time together doing all kinds of activities such as picnics, hikes, gatherings at each others homes, and more. Let me know if you want more info.
  • Asheville Lambda Group AA and Al Anon 828-650-6677
  • PFLAG www.pflag.org/north_carolina.229.0.html
  • Transmission and Phoenix are local transgender support groups. Contact me for more info.
  • People of Faith for Just Relationships: Contact justrelationships@yahoo.com.
  • Gay & Lesbian Ministry of Episcopal Diocese of WNC: contact glbtepiscopaldioces@yahoo.com
  • WNC Citizens for an End to Institutional Bigotry. Their Web site doesn't seem to be working right now.
  • Employment Equality for Gays and Lesbians - This group began when two local women announced their marriage in the Asheville Citizen-Times (2005). They have a photography business and in winter had a contract to do photos at Wolf Laurel, a local ski area. When the owners saw that they were so openly gay, they told them, at the last minute, after they bought all their supplies, that their service was not wanted anymore. They have a great bumper sticker that se see all over - I Don't Ski with Bigotry www.eegl.org
  • Asheville Purple Pages - a directory of gay and gay-friendly businesses, organizations and individuals. www.ashevillepurplepages.com
  • Equality North Carolina has occasional activities in Asheville. A good organization working for LGBT rights.
  • The Progressive Project began in Asheville in 2004 as a pilot project that is value-based to guarantee equal rights to all citizens and to establish America as a global leader that promotes human rights, sustainability and peace around the world. Check out their site.
  • gayellowpages The ORIGINAL Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Information Resource since 1973.

    General Asheville info

  • asheville.com More info about what's going on in and around the area.
  • ashevillenc.com All kinds of info about Asheville including classifieds.
  • ashevillenow.com A new sight with all kinds of great info. Keep your eye on it!
  • searchasheville.com "Your gateway to Asheville." Check it out! Weather, photos, lots of stuff.
  • ashevilleguidebook.com - The Asheville Guidebook is The Ultimate Guide To Asheville & The Western North Carolina Mountains.

    Mind, body, spirit resources

  • mountainsangha.com This is a very helpful holistic resource guide for mind, body, and spirit in the surrounding area. If you are moving here and have a related business, you'll want to list it here. If you are looking for anything related to mind, body or spirit, this is the place to find it.

  • Ultimate Ice Cream Co.! Yeah! I love ice cream and this place is one of those "best kept ice cream secrets." I'm an ice cream connoisseur. I've traveled the world tasting some of the finest and I have to tell you, there is none better than Ultimate Ice Cream. They also make their own gourmet chocolates and serve espresso and baked goods. Not only that, the owners, who hand craft all their wonderful flavors on the premises, Lucia and Kevin Barnes, are usually present to welcome and wait on you - true hospitality. This place is truly hidden, though. They are located at 1070 Tunnel Road in East Asheville, behind Pomodoros Restaurant (not too far from Lovers' Loop Retreat!). If you need directions, just let me know - or maybe I'll just come along! They hope to have a Web site soon.
  • The Center of Unlimited Possibilities (aka CUP) - A center for the creative, alternative, conscious, holistic, sustainable, and visionary. Also home to western NC's Chamber of Consciousness, a holistic chamber of commerce. "A complete resource center for everything 'alternative' in WNC."
  • Shoji Spa - Ashville's Japanese-style outdoor hot tubs and massage spa. About a mile up the road from Lovers' Loop Retreat!
  • Appalachian Spa - Enjoy this on-site mobile massage and day spa here at Lovers' Loop Retreat or participate in one of their many special offerings not far from here.
  • Therapeutic Massage - right down the street, just a few houses from Lovers' Loop Retreat, you can enjoy various kinds of massage. Let us know and we'll get you more information so you can make your appointment!
  • JOY can be yours! Check out the "how much joy" Web site to find out how you can discover your purpose and live your dream.

Outdoor activities

  • ncmst.org Friends of the Mountains to Sea Trail gives up-to-date information about the trail, which passes within a mile of our place. There are some good photos here, too, if you want to know what it looks like.
  • localhikes.com This link will take you to hikes local to this area. A helpful site for planning a trip.
  • Hiker to Hiker - Join Danny Bernstein on a hike you'll never forget. She'll show you the flowers, waterfalls and help you discover the beauty of this area. Check out her web site - interesting woman!
  • justasheville.com/urban.html A 1.7 mile historic walking tour of Asheville. You can take the adventure yourself or join a guided tour Saturdays for a fee.
  • romanticasheville.com/hiking This site not only tells about some great hikes in the mountains, but some good city strolls as well. Beautiful photos and additional links will give you even more information. If you roam around the site you'll find all kinds of great info about the area - restaurants, waterfalls, galleries,...
  • mtnadventureguides.com/rock_climbing If you get your reservations in on time, you may be able to book a day of climbing - no experience needed. Look at the smiling faces on their Web site.
  • ashevilleoutdoors.net Asheville Outdoors provides guiding and instruction in rock climbing and whitewater kayaking.
  • climbmaxnc.com If worse comes to worse, you can go climbing indoors. There is a climbing gym in the middle of downtown! They also offer guided rock climbing and ice climbs. Their site claims that the southern Appalachian Mountains are the oldest mountains in the world.
  • chimneyrockpark.com You won't want to miss this natural wonder. Look at their site to see all they have to offer.
  • paddlewithus.com You guessed it. This site is for people interested in going down the river. They will take you on a "peaceful, relaxing" raft or canoe trip down the French Broad River, which goes right through the middle of town and Biltmore Estate property.

    Shopping

    For all your bicycle needs - plus, they have a great Web site!

  • Malaprops is a wonderful bookstore and cafe downtown. There are many events to attend including occasional poetry readings where we have read some of our own. Check out their site and support them!
  • Amazing Savings One of Asheville's best kept secrets. Organic and natural foods at 50% to 80% off because they are either almost out of date or they are out of date or just overstocked. 121 Sweeten Creek Road (I-40 to exit 51, go right, 1/2 mile on right). Closed Sundays.

    Real estate/apartments

  • apartmentfinder.com Are you thinking of making Asheville your home? A lot of people start with an apartment the first year and spend that time getting a feel for the area. That gives you time to look around before you buy. You can get an idea of what's available on this Web site. There's also the local newspaper and Mountain Xpress, of course.
  • The Treehouse Team Looking for something to buy right now? Click here for help. Want to move here and get settled in right away? Maybe you want some investment property or you're looking for the perfect vacation home? Interested in green building, energy efficiency, healthy home concepts? Whatever it is, let me know and I will help you! I'm a certified environmental real estate consultant and broker. Check our GREEN DREAM newsletter! Let me know if you want to receive regular email reports of the Asheville real estate market.

    Attractions

  • Cherokee The Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians have 100 square miles of beautiful property on their "Qualla Boundary" about an hour west of Lovers' Loop Retreat. Attractions there include their incredible Museum of the Cherokee Indian, the Oconaluftee Village where you can observe their life as it was in 1750, and "Unto These Hills," an outdoor dramatization of the Cherokee story.
  • Asheville Brews Cruise A personalized tour of Asheville's finest breweries with tasting opportunities.
  • Biltmore Estate and Winery
  • Grove Park Inn
  • Blue Ridge Parkway
  • Chimney Rock
  • Lake Lure